Who you are:
You’re an accomplished and respected professional in your chosen field and have reached a stage and level that provides you with some latitude in managing your work timetable. Your family is mostly grown and out on their own, however you still find yourself ‘on call’ when they need you. You take part in community activities when time allows and people see you as someone they can count on. But more and more you find yourself asking ‘is this all there is?’. You had thought by now you’d have more time to spend on doing things just because you enjoyed them – not because you had to or it was expected of you. Secretly you wonder if there’s something wrong with you, why you are so dissatisfied with your life, alternating between discouragement and restlessness.
What your issues tend to be:
You’ve always been ready to help others when needed but are starting to resent the fact that others now expect you to step up when needed, even if it infringes on your own time. While on the surface it looks like you have a great life only you know how many sacrifices you’ve made to achieve your current level of success. And more and more you’re finding your so-called success hollow and empty. There are so many things you’ve always wanted to do but have put on a back-burner thinking that ‘someday you’ll have more time to do them’. Unfortunately that isn’t happening and you’re afraid you’ll run out of time to do so many of the things you’ve always wanted to do. You’ve suffered losses on many levels and some days you wonder why you even get out of bed. You’re tired and worried that you might be on the verge of burn-out. It seems like each day it takes more effort to just muddle through everything expected of you. Yet you don’t know how to take a stand for yourself, always worried about what others might think of you if you said “No” or actually did something just for yourself.
What you need most right now:
What you need most right now is a clear definition of what’s important to you and a lazar focus on aligning who you are with what you want. It’s all about clearing out any blind-spots you might have accumulated over the years and discovering and honouring your unique self. Right now you have neither the time nor energy to figure it out all on your own. You need a simple easy to follow blue print to guide you in how to overcome your current inertia and identify and tap into the skills you already have as well as action steps fpr mastering new ones, so you can transform your daily life from merely surviving to truly thriving, living your life fully as you want, without guilt or regrets. Bottom line – you’ll be back in the drive’s seat of you life, living by design, not default, without all the overwhelm, stress and discouragement that have dragged you down and made you feel like such a disaster.
So, are you ready to take action on creating the life you truly want? To learn more about what’s possible, or discuss how I might be able to help you accelerate your movement to a more thriving lifestyle, let’s connect. It’s super simple – just choose a time that’s convenient for you using my online scheduler.